Four nights out a month, same time, same group. How friendships actually start.
Launching this summer in London
Get early accessA few questions so we can put you with people you'll actually click with.
Mingle, find your people, form a group of 6.
Same group, same time. Bowling, dinners, drinks and more - different every week.
Stay with your group for another month, or start fresh with new people. Your call. Different events each month.
When I lived in London, my friend group thinned out as people moved away or had kids. Making new friends as a working adult turned out to be a nightmare. Apps are for swiping, not staying. Meetup is a roomful of randos you'll never see again. And most social clubs cost more than your rent.
What I wanted was a way to keep meeting the same compatible people enough times to actually become friends. That didn't exist. Now I'm building it.
— Al B.
Building gether after living this for too long
Most apps give you one-off events with strangers. Gether puts you with five new people for four weeks. Long enough to get to know each other.
That's what's missing everywhere else - regularly seeing people you like is how adult friendships actually form.
A mix of nights out - bars, bowling, dinners, and more. Tailored to your group's energy and the city's calendar.
Venues booked, dates set, group sorted. You turn up and cover your own food and drinks at the venue.
Same time each week with the same group, so you can lock it into your calendar. We'll ask your availability in the survey and group you with people on a similar schedule.
Yep. Tell us who you want to be grouped with, we'll put you together. Bring one or several - gether works just as well for friend groups expanding their circle as for solos.
Everyone completes the same survey. We use it to invite people who'll actually get on - based on availability, age/energy, and what they're after. You won't end up in an awkward room.
Pick your group on the night. We'll share the full lineup the next day so you can see exactly who you'll be meeting - confirm if you're happy, or step back if it's not for you.
We expect most people to match on the night. If a group is still forming, they can invite you within 24–48 hours. If nothing lands, we refund your month's fee minus the £15 match-night ticket.
Be first to apply when we open and help shape how gether works